« However, 50/50 child care services between parents are relatively rare in private law cases. Studies show that there must be a number of factors, practical things such as close geographic proximity, but above all, the couple must be in reasonable or good conditions for the back-and-forth of daily life to be housed for a child without excessive emotional time. Once their decision has been made, the Court of Justice can classify the order in one of two ways. He could say that the child will live with one parent and « spend time with » the other, or he could say that the child`s care is « shared » between the parents. One way or another, the command will determine exactly which days the child will go where. Some parents think it is best to choose the same duration by a one-week or week-long stop model. However, this means that the child will spend a week away from the other parent, which can be a long time, especially for young children. Others think of patterns where the child takes turns every day or every other day, which can be confusing for young children and also means that there are many « transfers » that can be a risk of conflict. The following type of model over a two-week period seems to work well for many families: a « life of order » – an arrangement that determines who the child should live with. and because of the change in the law, it is no longer necessary to impose a common section 8 provision. Both parents have the same status. Therefore, in my opinion, a 50/50 time allocation will remain a rare order and will only be considered if we can count on the fact that it will not work at the expense of the child, even if the goal is to give each parent a good quality and a lot of time.
As a result, one order to « live with » places parents on an uneven basis – whenever they want to take the child from the UK for less than a month, you have to get approval, and the other not – it somewhat undermines the role and importance of the second parent. However, the Court will often take a direction in these injunctions to ensure that leave is always granted. This also goes in the direction of a levelling of the conditions of competition with regard to the imbalance that « lives with » and « spends time with » orders on the roles assumed by the parents.